Don't just think in general terms as these cards speak directly to relationship issues of all kinds, and you don't want to misread your card because you didn't form the question clearly enough in your own head. I've done that, it's frustrating and I don't want this to leave you with more questions than answers.
I am once again using the Doreen Virtue Romance Angels oracle cards.
As always, remember, cards aren't science, nothing you read here should ever be taken as medical advice or the "bottom line" of what you should do. All of us who do this work are taught to say, this is for entertainment purposes only. Read the cards with a heart open to hear god and your guides and always follow your gut instincts in every situation.
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1. Stay Optimistic About Your Love Life ~ Positive thinking and faith will bring you romance.
For you, if you are n a relationship, perhaps one that has gone a bit flat, or is all out dead, this card brings you the message that your thoughts control your experiences. When we feed a bad situation with negative thoughts, the situation only gets worse. I am not saying that by simply starting to say positive mantras about your relationship, everything will turn perfect, however, that is a place to start. You have more control than you know, not over the other person in this relationship, but with you. If you can find something within you to be positive about, something you once loved about this person, or maybe even still do and focus on that for a while rather than all the things making you angry, perhaps you will find enough breathing space to deal with the bigger issues in this relationship. This card states the relationship can breathe again, it's up to you if you want it to or not.
If you are seeking love, this card speaks to your staying positive that love is right around the corner! Be very clear in your mind about what you are looking for and don't settle for anything less. Love is only joyful when it is the right love. Expect love to find you and stay hopeful in that belief!
2. Heart-to-Heart Conversations ~ Honestly discuss your feelings with each other.
This card is speaking to those of you in relationships where you feel as though you are walking on eggs shells or are invisible. Too many of us fear confrontation and so we allow our partners to cross boundaries and hurt us in ways they may not even realize they are doing. Resentment then begins to brew and soon the relationship is infected and badly hemorrhaging. It is not too late to fix this, it is time to be open and honest with your partner about your feelings and your needs. Their response is not your responsibility, but giving them the chance to respond, is.
If you are seeking a relationship, this card is actually asking you to have a heart to heart with yourself. Perhaps take a good, hard, honest look at the barriers you put up between yourself and new love. Now would be a wonderful time to release those.
3. Free Yourself ~ It's time to take back control of your life.
This card speaks to ways you have shut off your passions. Whether you are in a relationship or not, you are longing for a great passionate love affair that is eluding you. This card is asking you to trust yourself and allow your heart to thaw, your walls to come down and be free. There are many ways we are wounded in life, but to have truly great love, it requires a depth of feeling that must be fearless. If you are longing for this kind of love, you must first free yourself from the constraints of fear and breath again of your own truth come what may.
4. Wedding ~ This situation involves marriage.
This card should rarely be taken at face value. For some who chose it, it may very well be exactly what it says, you're going to be married soon. For most though, this can refer to feelings surrounding marriage, possibly a past marriage that is bleeding into your current relationship. Healing on all levels is something important to strive for, but in our relationships above all else, it is imperative we do the work to clean out old wounds so we can give ourselves fully to our current or future partners.
One other thing I feel I must mention, this card could also be here to tell you that yes the person you wish to be with is either going to be, or already is committed to another. Your heart will tell you the truth of this and I would caution that when you are in these types of situations, listen to your guides. This person could very well be meant for you, but they must have this other relationship experience first. If that is the case the angels will lovingly guide you to how to release this relationship for now and how to continue on your own highest path until such time as reunion can be arranged from the spiritual realms to this one.
5. Separation ~ Time apart from your partner is on the horizon.
As a twin flame, I know the pain of separation all too well. If you are separated from the one you love, this card comes to tell you that there is purpose in this and if you trust the guides and angels, they will lead you to the ways to fill your hours and days with meaning and preparing you for reunion.
This could be a simple business trip during the honeymoon period of a relationship, where you can't stand to be apart from one another, or it could be the separation of a marriage, or anything in between. It simply signifies a time of separation and asks you to have faith and listen for heavenly guidance on how to handle this time.
6. Attraction ~ You attract romantic love by enjoying this moment fully.
This card is not what you may think. This card is telling you that if you want to attract love into your life, then the best way is to release fear and worry as those emotions read in your energy and in your body language and will not attract the right partner to you.
If you are waiting on great love and doing the work required of you, then keep this in mind, worry and fear are like poisons and a person who is poisoned will never look their best no matter how they dress themselves up. That energy is readable on a subconscious level and the romance angels are asking you to work on replacing the stress in your life with honest enjoyment of the moments within your day. Every day find something to smile over, be grateful for and to laugh... laughter is the most beautiful expression of joy on the planet and that reads as attractiveness.
7. Religious Factors ~ Your love life is influenced by your religious upbringing and spiritual path.
This card comes to remind you that your spiritual beliefs are important to you and you will not feel fully satisfied in a relationship where your beliefs are not shared.
If you are currently in a relationship, this card suggests that a difference of religious backgrounds could be causing stress and asks you not to back away from your truth and what you need in this area. If there are children involved, it is important that you have the freedom to present your views to your children. Be true to yourself, this area of life is too important to not be honest with your partner about your feelings and beliefs.
If you are seeking a relationship, this card is here to remind you that your spirituality is important and should be a major factor in accepting a new relationship. I am feeling a need to say, do not accept a relationship with one who is not spiritual in the thoughts that you can change them or that there won't be anyone with whom you can share your beliefs. The person you are looking at is the universe' test to you asking you, "Will you be faithful to your spirit, or will you sell it for romance?"
8. Healing Family Issues ~ Your love life benefits as you forgive your parents.
If you are in a relationship either you, or your partner, may be influenced by parental wounding and this could be causing a divide within the relationship. This card is coming to you to ask you to do the emotional work here, to find forgiveness and release from these wounds. Remember that forgiving a wrong done to you isn't about saying what they did was okay, it's simply you saying I won't carry this with me any longer.
So much of our relationship with our parents plays out in the romantic relationships we end up in. If you are single, this card is wisely asking you to deal with any issue you may have with your parents before embarking on a new relationship because the truth is, the "you" you are with these hurts and the "you" you will be without them, will attract vastly different love interests.
9. Children ~ Your love life is being influence by children.
This card is essentially just as it says, your relationship is being influenced by children. It could be step children, busy schedules, illness, but when I drew it, I got the overwhelming sense of desire for children, rather than actual children within the relationship.
I feel the angels asking you to lay your desire for children with them and let them bring that to you because right now your focus is such you cannot find great love, or perhaps you will ruin what you currently have.
God has an answer for you in this area and you are being asked to trust and let go.
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